Here too, I like the aspects of this book, although the Toltec configuration is used again. Don Miguel Ruiz tells us that «toltecs are those who can express with their hearts, those who have unconditional love.» «The A`s»? Unlike all other spiritual teachers and even ourselves when we are the best? Puleeeeze! If you are already in a relationship that does not honor you, then you can enter a period of healing and purification, so that you both return to love and respect, starting with yourself and following each other. You start with yourself, because you have to have love to give love; They need self-esteem to show respect. The book is based on a series of spiritual beliefs, held by Toltec`s seniors, to help readers transform their lives into a new experience of freedom, happiness and love.  According to the author, everything a man does is based on agreements he has made with himself, with others, with God and with life itself.  In these agreements, we can tell ourselves who they are, how to behave, what is possible and what is impossible.  Some agreements that create individuals may not cause problems, but there are certain arrangements that come from a place of fear and have the power to deplete emotional energy and reduce a person`s self-esteem.  The book states that these self-limiting agreements cause unnecessary suffering.  Ruiz also believes that to find personal joy, one must get rid of socially imposed and fear-based agreements that can unconsciously influence the individual`s behaviour and thinking.  Another fundamental premise of the book suggests that much of the suffering is created and that most people have the ability to transform themselves and the negative thoughts they have about the situations in their lives.
 The author identifies the sources of unhappiness in life and proposes four beneficial agreements that can be concluded with oneself to improve their general state of well-being. By pacting with these four most important chords, an individual is able to dramatically influence the amount of happiness he feels in his life, regardless of external circumstances.  In his most famous book, «The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Wisdom (A Toltec Wisdom Book), Don Miguel Ruiz explains how we can obtain the personal freedom of beliefs and agreements we have made with ourselves and others, which create use and unhappiness in our lives.